I found some cute items that I think are perfect.
Cupcake cookies are exquisite! Sugar cookies & royal icing make these the prettiest I've seen hands down. More great cookies at cakejournal!
Cupcake Placecard Holders. They come in sets of 4 with 8 blank cards, and you can get them for $8.49 from Organize
Awesome Giant Cupcake Pan, this professional weight pan
Creates a big 3-D cupcake "CAKE" for the whole party to share!
27.99 from sugarcraft